100 Spanking Things about ME - The FBG Story

OK a long long LONG time ago, I did this fun entry on my blog where I listed 50 spanking things about me...but that was like 3 YEARS AGO!!  YIKES!! Time sure does fly when you're having spanking fun and adventures galore!!  At any rate, here is my newly updated spanking things about ME!!  Hope you enjoy it!!

 
1.My first spanking thoughts came to me when I was in elementary school. This being when the teacher was telling us a story of the three little pigs where the pigs get spanked in the end.
 
2.Addendum to 1. I would often ask all my girl friends in elementary school what their spankings were like when they got into trouble, asking them not to leave any details out!!
 
3.I was never spanked as a child.
 
4.My first adult spanking took place in the year 1989 with my then first boyfriend later fiancee.
 
5.My then boyfriend/fiancee would spank me every day after work before doing anything else just on general principles which always led to more intimate things.
 
6.My then boyfriend loved to exert his Toppyness by always reminding me that HE was the boss, however, I never seemed to listen to him which resulted in a spanking.
 
7.The first spanking book I bought was called "Sweet Dreams" which accounted the punishment spankings of five young girls under the care of a certain Englishman. I still have that book!!
 
8.The first spanking video I ever saw was by Shadow Lane, however, the title escapes me.
 
9.The best movie I saw that was based on a very popular submissive book I had read was the "Story of O". I think I kept that video for 2 weeks!!
 
10.When I saw 9 ½ weeks and then read the book, I was quite disappointed that Kim Basinger didn’t get spanked!!
 
11.The first spanking party I ever attended was in Southern California and after that I never stopped going to various spanking parties all over the state.
 
12.The first disciplinarian that met was the Doctor and I met Him online.
 
13.Addendum to 11. The Doctor and I used to meet about once a week in the beginning, however, He realized that I needed more guidance which led to meeting twice a week.
 
14.I tend to enjoy discipline spankings more than erotic spankings, however, I do enjoy them both just the same depending on the setting of course.
15.I enjoy being spanked OTK.


16.The first spanking implement I ever owned was given to me by the Doctor and it was a hairbrush.
 
17.Addendum to 16. The Doctor then proceeded to give me the following other implements: wooden paddle, leather strap, leather paddle, rubber OTK cane, riding crop, bull whip (shortened style), suede flogger, leather braided cat o’nine tails (various sizes), and a vipers tongue which I kept in a gym bag that he also gave me.
 
18.The Doctor used to make me keep a journal of all my offenses and then label the implement with which ever offense it was to be used for.
 
19.Addendum to 18. The Doctor used to make me memorize what the offense was prior to using the implement (which was hard when you had like 10 or more offenses on your list!)
 
20.I’ve been to 10+ Shadow Lane Parties over the last 10 years and next year will be my 11th party thus far!! YEAH!!
 
21.Some of my best girl friends also get spanked!! (imagine that!!)
 
22.I’ve traveled to Maryland, Vegas, Florida, Northern California, New Jersey, Philadelphia and New York for a spanking which is where I got my nick name of the Traveling Funny Brat Girl.
 
23.I have been taken out of a restaurant and spanked in the parking lot for throwing sugar packets at my brat friend.
 
24.I have been spanked and then plugged and made to stand on display as a punishment.
 
25.One thing that a Top/Dom can say that will really get to me is "Young Lady!"
 
26.Addendum to 25. However, if that is all that is said and nothing is done after that, it pretty much didn’t do anything to me. (action does speak louder than words!)
 
27.I love it when a Top scolds me!
 
28.I love it when a Top embarrasses me or adds a little bit of humiliation if He feels that He doesn’t have my attention.
 
29.I feel like I need more than one spanking a day.
 
30.I have been spanked for being late.(I can't get anywhere on time to save my life!)
 
31.I have been spanked for cussing or bad language.
 
32.I have been made to stand in the corner while my brat friend is getting spanked for something that I made her do. (hahaha!)
 
33.I have been spanked at a wedding!
 
34.I have been spanked to tears.
 
35.If I am role playing, I enjoy Top/bottom, Daddy/daughter (with the right daddy of course) Uncle/niece, Aunt/niece or Teacher/student scenarios the best. (usually whatever was discussed prior to the scene)
 
36.Because of my heritage, if being spanked with the belt, it usually triggers the ultimate in guilty feelings. (damn that belt!)
 
37.ALL of my closest vanilla friends (male and female) know of my fetish and/or proclivities.

38.I have been made to go to dinner without my panties as punishment BEFORE the actual punishment session.
 
39.I have been spanked in public while bent over the hood of a car while cars passed by.
 
40.I have been spanked in the shower or with a very wet bottom. (ouch!)
 
41.I have been known to take a very hard spanking and have no marks the next day to prove it. (however, I AM still sore...sheeesh!)
 
42.Some of the Tops that I’ve played with spank VERY hard!
 
43.I hate counting! (HATE it!)
 
44.Addendum to 43. I hate having to recite or memorize anything or calculate or do ANY kind of math equations during a spanking.
 
45.I have been on a ALL-SPANKING weekend for which it was VERY hard to sit on the way home.
 
46.I have a collection of over 50 books which have either spanking or anything related to the S&M scene.
 
47.I hate being pulled by my ear to get a spanking.
 
48.I LOVE to have marks that I had a good spanking the night before.
 
49.Addendum to 48. Marks are like reminders that someone has cared enough to set you on the straight and arrow. (Even if it doesn’t last!)
 
50.Being spanked for spanking sake always makes me happy. (Especially if its not MY idea!)
 
51.My entire family has 1st hand knowledge of my spanking fetish.
 
52.My father makes wooden paddles as part of my online paddle business www.whackmepaddles.com.
 
53.My father, grandfather, uncle and cousin have all attended a Shadow Lane party as part of supporting my paddle business.
 
54.I've been to a BDSM club for a spanking party.
 
55.I participated in a Dom/sub relationship for 3+ years under the supervision of the most AWESOME Dom EVER!
 
56.During my BDSM adventures, I've been set on fire!!
 
57.During my BDSM adventures, I enjoyed edge play with includes knife play!
 
58.I love the marks from knife play, especially around my nipples just as much as cane marks on my bottom!
 
59.Sometimes public humiliation before a spanking really gets my attention! EEK!
 
60.I do own quite a few school girl skirts for school spanking role plays.
 
61.I once got a brat friend spanked to tears for not singing a song on command...(can you imagine?)
 
62.Has taken part in a BDSM slave auction for charity where I was someone's property for the evening.
 
63.Has been spanked as part of a competition to see who could take the hardest spanking and WON!
 
64.Has been crowned the winner at spanking musical chairs over one of my best brat friends!
 
65.Had a personal trainer who was also a Domme...she was strict and awesome!!
 
66.Has been spanked by female tops and enjoy it!!
 
67.I enjoy being spanking and plugged at the same time...FUN!
 
68.All my spanking fantasies always involve anal play of some sort.
 
69.Being spanked and made to stand in the order is also another fantasy of mine.
 
70.Doesn't consider myself overly bratty but definitely mouthy when needed.
 
71.Doesn't care too much for overly bratty brats who will do ANYTHING for attention.
 
72.Is currently involved in a relationship with a Top who is also my significant other.
 
73.Is currently spanked on a daily basis just BECAUSE (what is wrong with this picture? LOL!)
 
74.Finds that the friends that I have in the spanking community are closer to me than some of my family. (UMM They ARE my family!!)
 
75.Can eroticize the pain during a spanking.
 
76.Can NOT eroticize the pain with my current Top AT ALL!!!
 
77.Enjoys reading various spanking blogs on the net on a daily basis.
 
78.Has a few female Tops that really awesome to play with (you know who you are...)
 
79.Has been a part of a spanking role play where there were up to 10+ people involved!! YIKES!!
 
80.As part of my BDSM play, I enjoyed bondage very much!
 
81.Also part of my BDSM play, I enjoy the viper gloves and wortenburg wheel even though they make me itchy!!
 
82.One of best part of the BDSM play that I enjoyed was the cleaning of the implements ritual...gives you time to gather your thoughts after a play scene.
 
83.It's sometimes hard to keep my mouth shut during a spanking, especially if the spanker is trying to tell me something that isn't true.
 
84.Wooden paddles aren't that bad especially after being properly warmed up.
 
85.Enjoys a proper warm up before a spanking.
 
86.Understands that if you're being punished, a warm up is not likely going to happen LOL!
 
87.LOVES being spanked before bed!
 
88.LOVES being spanked first thing in the morning as a wake-up call!! LOL!!
 
89.Loves hearing my best bratty friend getting spanked as a good morning wake-up call too LOL!!
 
90.HATES having a bed time!!! HATE HATE HATE IT!!
 
91.Believes that if you don't get in the spankees head, there is a chance that they won't feel connected during the spanking.
 
92.Wishes there was a specific vacation spot for all spankos to go for spanking fun, all throughout the year!!
 
93.Has STILL not been spanked by a certain Tall Texan (You know who you are too!!)
 
94.Has mixed feelings about the cane, but does enjoy it much more when warmed up.
 
95.Does not care too much for hairbrush as a spanking implement!! It DOES have other uses!!
 
96.Got spanked with a kitchen utensil (OK MANY kitchen utensils!!)
 
97.Thinks that getting spanked for REAL reasons is much better than getting spanked for fake reasons (unless you're at a play party or doing a role play)
 
98.Has fantasized about getting an enema before a spanking!!
 
99.Has the best spanking family in the WORLD!!
 
100.Wouldn't be surprised if some of the things on this blog get me spanked tonight when TGC gets home!! LOL!!

The Next Adventure Begins...

With the Shadow Lane party behind me, it was time to start focusing on my next BIG life's adventure.


After dating (including flying back and forth to the East Coast and such) TGC and I had decided to move in together! What this meant was that I would leave my home town of Whittier, California and move in with TGC on the East Coast! I know what you're thinking...how can I even THINK of leaving the warm weather, sunny beaches and mostly my family to be with TGC on the cold, dreary East Coast??? Well after some thought and many conversations with TGC, I decided it was time for me to spread my wings and FLY!!


I have been working since I got out of high school and even though I never finished college due to family tragedies, I got to thinking about this being the best time to venture out of my comfort zone. My comfort zone mostly consisted of a job that I had been at for the past 7 years, majority of my family so close by that I could see them every day if I chose to. Not to forget my life long friends and church that I had attended since I was born and baptized. All in all, I basically lived my life with everything possible close to me and my heart....except love. Sure I had a love in my life previously, but he left me early on in my life. I always believed that God only gave you one chance at love and with my chance being here and then gone so quickly, I thought I was done. But in time, I realized that God doesn't work like that. So when I met TGC and we spent time getting to know each other, I was convinced that I was given a second chance!! How awesome is that?? If there is any advice I can give, Don't Settle...and hard as it is to do, I waited and low and behold, TGC and I met.


Things in life are never meant to be easy...take it from someone who knows...After my decision to move, those that are close to me started to surprise me with their actions and concerns. But what is life if you don't take a risk right?? I have faith that God knows where I need to be in this life and I'm confident that he won't give me anything that I can't handle. Besides that, I handled some really hard and crappy things in the past...harder than leaving my family and friends to be with the man that I love. But in my mind, I wasn't really leaving... If anyone knows me at all, I never forget those that have made a imprint on my heart. I always manage to find a way to let friends and family the like that I haven't forgotten about them. Call me sentimental or silly...it's just who I am I guess.


At any rate, I decided to move to the East Coast to be with TGC. I've been here now for about 3 weeks and I LOVE it!! I miss my family and friends and seriously miss church and the choir that I sang in for the past 3 plus years. But I am super excited about this new life's adventure. I'm excited to see where TGC and I go. I adore him and the way he loves and takes care of me.


So right about now, you're wondering WHERE did all the spanking fun go?? Oh it's here!! One thing about me and spanking is that it is never too far from my mind and now that TGC and I live together, I have to watch myself much more. Sure it was easy to brat the man from 3000 miles away but now that he comes home and we are together, I have to remember to be careful!! LOL!! If you know me, you know that I'm not THAT good at being careful. So you'll be happy to know that TGC sleeps with the ES (Expensive Strap) on the night stand!! How is that for love....


Our next adventure takes us to the "Back to School" party hosted by Florida Moonshine in November so check back for an update once we return.


Until then....Happy Halloween & Happy Spankings to you all!!

Post Shadowlane Report....Better Late Than NEVER

OK so the last few months I've neglected my blog...that is a shameful fact...but life changing things have happened to me and well I needed to step back and handle my life before I could come back and blog about it.


My last blog update had me on vacation with TGC. Shortly thereafter, He and I went to the Shadow Lane party in LV. What many don't know, is that TGC and I actually met at last years Shadow Lane Party. Thus this party would put us at our exact one year anniversary. Suffice it to say, I wish I could focus on nothing but spanking fun with friends and the such, but I was mainly focused on spending close time with TGC. Call me sentimental or what have you but I take my relationships very seriously. So although I didn't play with as many people as I have in the past, I still had a great time!


To begin with, TGC and I shared a suite with Uncle Smike and Aunt Miranda and Uncle Buzz as well as my bratty friend J. That was awesome!! We had the best time in that suite!! On Friday we all attended the Shadow Lane Vendor's Fair and Social Mixer together. I had decided to NOT vend this SL party so that I could spend time more quality time with TGC. However, that was sort of short lived as my J and Aunt Miranda decided to vend and promote the SSNY and PASS groups. So I was enlisted to help them promote the groups. One thing I might add, there definitely weren't many vendors this time around but it was still a good time. Ian the London Tanner was available to sell his wonderful leather goods and with his table being strategically located next to the SSNY/PASS table, that enabled us all to have a fun time together.


Later after the vending was through, we all headed up to the Presidential suite which was open for socializing (coincidentally it was hosted in honor of the SSNY/PASS and Florida Moonshine groups combined!) A special thanks to Tom for allowing this to take place!


After a night of spanking fun and socializing, the SSNY/PASS family headed back to our suite for family fun...which I have to say is always my favorite time. Even if Uncle Smike spanks me for meaningless reasons, I enjoyed the fun!


Saturday morning we all got up and hustled to get our suite ready for a special afternoon SSNY/PASS suite party. Aunt Miranda and J decorated and put out the goodies as we all made sure to clean up the place. And slowly but surely everyone made their way to our suite and let me tell you...the room was PACKED!! Off in one room, Aunt Miranda and Uncle Smike were doing demonstrations of the family strap which was a BIG HIT!! YIKES!! I remember my first encounter of the family strap...again might I add YIKES!! All in all, everyone had great spanking fun!! M from CA spanked me in our room with TGC supervising and shouting out reasons to spank me harder...I think there should be a law against that kind of stuff!! LOL!!


As the suite party wound down, we all began to get ready for the dinner/dance. We all looked so awesome!! I loved seeing us all dressed up and fancy!! Mexican food was on the menu this time which was a nice change. And it wasn't too bad either (however, I have been told that I am biased when it comes to anything Mexican LOL!) It was fun to see everyone dance and have a GREAT time before we all retired up to the Presidential suite for spanking fun!! TGC and I made our way to casino for some gambling fun where I WON!! YAY!! We were so excited that we had to go up and tell...well EVERYONE!! LOL!!


Sunday was our last day at the Sun Coast Hotel and that brought our Shadow Lane party to a close. In retrospect, I found myself not as interested in playing with multiple people as I have in the past. Partly because I saw this trip as a chance to spend time with my suite mates and of course TGC. I saw this trip as a chance for TGC and I to celebrate our one year anniversary of being together. So with that being said, TGC and I checked out of the Sun Coast Hotel and headed to the MGM Grand. We also had concert tickets that night to see Santana at the Hard Rock!! It was great to share Santana with TGC!! I grew up listening to most of Santana's music so it was awesome for me to see him live in concert!! We had a great time!!


All in all, over all our Shadow Lane trip was GREAT!! We spent time with our friends and with each other!! But other things were on the horizon for TGC and I and as Shadow Lane passed, I got ready for the next big adventure in my life....moving in with TGC!!