Saturday, October 25, 2008

When 20 years goes by...

This weekend I embark on a different kind of adventure...this adventure is taking me back in time...back when the spanking itch was so small, but still ever so evident in my life. This weekend I'm attending my 20 year High School Reunion.

Last night I attending a pre-reunion get together and it was so awesome to see so many of the old friends from school. I was a little apprehensive about getting together to mark this milestone, but how bad could it really be?? Turns out, it was rather nice. You know how when you're in school and you have all those cliquish groups who basically don't give you the time of day? Last night, we were like a family.

No one appreciated it more than me that so many people who I thought didn't know my name in school, "knew" my name last night. Who cares if they read my bio on the reunion site! They took the time to ACTUALLY read it and find out what has been going on with me these past 20 years. And that made me feel pretty good.

It hasn't been the best of times for me these past 20 years. One bittersweet aspect of this is fact that I actually made it to this milestone and my fiance D didn't. We graduated the same year and it's hard not thinking about him as I celebrate. And his friends (close guy friends) who knew him better than I probably did, are feeling it just as much as I am. But guess what? We still have our friendships and each other and if anything, this milestone has renewed that. Which is positive and happy for someone like me, who hangs on to everything great that comes my way!

I'm taking this as an opportunity to re-establish and renew friendships...and solidify some that were strained over the years...because we're all just still trying to find our way in this life...and it's not over until the fat lady sings...and if she does sing anytime soon....you better believe I'm going to be singing with her....

~maria fbg~

Thursday, October 09, 2008

Spanked in NYC - Whirlwind Weekend

My latest adventure was to a place I had never been before! First of all, I never in a million years dreamed that I would actually go to New York, let alone get spanked there!! But I get ahead of myself... The way this trip actually happened was due to some precluding events in the summer.

If you have been following along, you will know that I went to a party in Florida back in June 2008. As it turns out, I had a GREAT time at that party and I met so many wonderful friends and played A LOT!! (That might be an understatement, but who's keeping track of that anyway?) So it was back at that party that I met Toppy guy C. Although it was a brief introduction, it's fair to say that I remember meeting him there. Also, what I remember about him was that he was very absent from most of the party festivities, but we didn't really know each other, but strangely enough, I do remember the absent part. At any rate, it would be fair to say that I have some recollection of this Toppy guy.

Then my brat friends and I made our way out to Shadowlane in Las Vegas. Again, I had my run in with Toppy guy C and this time, we had a really great time. The weekend proved not enough time to actually get to know each other, other than he spanked me really hard MANY times throughout the weekend (which I didn't deserve as you all know). Of course if you ask him, he'll have a totally different story, but we'll not get into that. All in all, it is fair to assess that I enjoyed getting to know him in that short amount of time.

My next adventure took me and my brat friend J back to Florida for some Back to School fun! This party was beyond fun as you previously read. It was definitely a great way to end the summer. But what I wasn't expecting was to go on another adventure so soon!!

About a week after my return home (and since that Las Vegas party) Toppy guy C and I had began to have some very interesting talks. Most of the time, I bratted him until he practically had to go to urgent care for some unknown itchy rash disease in his right palm. LOL! Come to think of it, I don't think he ever go that properly diagnosed. Oh well... At any rate, we did talk often and I did brat him every chance I got. Hey, what did he think was going to happen? I was ALL THE WAY in CA and he was on the OTHER side of the United States!! As far as I was concerned, I was sitting pretty safely, or at least I thought I was.

Next thing I knew, Toppy guy C presented me with a proposition. How would I like to try bratting him face to face! WHAT??!?!?! I can tell you, I am almost ALWAYS prepared for anything, but this proposal, caught me off guard. So we talked about when I would go, when I "could" go, everything! YIKES! Was this trip even possible?? So, it was safe to say I needed to talk to "someone" about this so I called my brat friend J and asked her for advice on the situation. I could practically hear her jumping through the phone with her excitement!! She said YES!! You have to come out to NY and see me!! So far that was two votes for me to go. The final vote rested with my Dom SM.

So when I presented Him with the proposition He was completely hesitant. As a matter of fact, He was more than hesitant. He thought the thought of me flying all the way to the east coast to meet someone that I barely knew alone was out of the question. But when I indicated that my brat friend J would be with me the entire weekend (with us the entire weekend) He said He had to think about that. As I awaited on my best behavior, Toppy guy C, my brat friend J and I talked about what would happen if I was allowed to go. The initial plan was that I would fly in where Toppy guy C would pick me up and then take me to my brat friend J. As it turns out, there was going to be a spanking party in PA too!! This weekend was shaping up to be a fun time.

After a few days, I finally got my approval to go from SM and I was on my way!! OMG I was going not only going to NY but NJ, PA & DC...YIKES!! This was going to be a whirlwind of a time!

My plane left CA late Thursday (a red-eye) and I arrived in DC Friday morning at 6am (3am my time). Once I had my bags and we headed to the car, I was reminded about previous bratty conversations we had (of course I did most of the bratting). I didn't recall at the time, but Toppy guy C said that he was going to spank me as soon as I got off the plane. Did I believe it? Not really...who would? Well I guess I should have believed it. The minute we got to the car and bags were in place...Toppy guy C asked me to join him by the back passenger door which was open like he was putting something back in the back seat. So I walked back to see what he wanted to show me and he instructed me to put my hands on the seat. Magically a bath brush appeared!! OH NO!! Was this really happening? Apparently it was and after the volley of swats that hit my bottom (which was bared at some point...I guess with my shocked state, I didn't realize they were lowered), I was quickly promising I'd be good. He didn't believe me, but that is besides the point. When he was done he instructed me to sit in the passenger seat and that my pants had to stay down!! WHAT!?!? I couldn't pull them up?? A little mortified, I did as I was told, trying desperately not to let this effect me (but deep down, I was very surprised). The drive conversation was mostly reminders of the many, many bratty things that I managed to get away with while I was SO far away. And how he planned to take care of those things (something about learning lessons on this trip..blah, blah, blah) while I was there. All I kept thinking was "we'll see".

Our first stop in our Nations Capital was to his apartment to get some last minute things before heading to NJ. This detour gave me a driving tour of all the wonderful sights of DC!! YAY! I had never been there before!! Even though it was a quick driving tour, I was still happy to see some sights. Of course, I had to get another spanking at his apartment so that I could remember to be a good girl during the drive. Are any of you keeping track out there...so far two spankings!! In the hopes of missing morning traffic, we walked down to a local breakfast diner and ate. Then back to the apartment, I was spanked AGAIN! Hey, I TRY to be good...it doesn't always work out in my favor. (That's 3 and 4...I was spanked twice yikes!) We quickly got in the car and made our way to NJ. That is where I was meet up with J and her brat sis N.

I must have been pretty tired because I managed to sleep almost all the way there!! So much for being a bratty back-seat driver!! NJ is so beautiful!! WOW! I love how everything is so green everywhere! Once we got to his place in NJ, we unpacked and relaxed a bit. Well I "thought" that was the plan, but apparently Toppy guy C had "other" plans for me. He felt the need to discuss some of my bad behavior, specifically my language. YIKES!! I didn't remember from our prior conversation, but he quickly reminded me that if you use bad language that you get your mouth washed out with soap. WHAT?!?!? WHO does that anymore anyway?? Well....apparently HE does!! Thing is, I have NEVER had that done to me...at least not while being plugged and caned all at the same time!! Let's not forget that the entire time this is going on, I'm getting the scolding of my life!! Somehow, in the middle of all this, I "knew" that I was in some trouble! After the caning I got to spend some time in the corner thinking about my behavior. I don't think I cussed the rest of the weekend. Can you imagine?? Was I cured?? Maybe....hmmmm. (That's 5 and maybe even 6...I'm not going to be able to keep track for very much longer in this post LOL!)

My brat friend J called and she and her friend N were in NJ too!! So we all decided to meet up in the city so they could show me NYC!! YAY!! That required us to drive into Brooklyn and then get on the subway!! OMG the subway!! YAY!! So far I was loving NYC!! And Toppy guy C was so awesome to all of us!! He made sure to take good of us!! Once we were off the subway, we were right in the heart of Times Square!! I don't have words for what I saw. I think I was in shock. With all the lights, this is such a beautiful city. We sat down and had pizza right on the street!! Then we headed to a sex shop in the Village. There's a reason why they call it the city that never sleeps. I stopped to pick up a few NYC souvenirs and then we all headed back to Brooklyn to see J's and M's apartment. OMG it was the cutest thing ever!! FINALLY I got the chance to see where my bestest brat friend lives!! YAY!! AND I got to finally meet her roommate M!! She is so adorable!! This was the best day ever!!

Once my brat friend got all her stuff together, the four of us headed back to NJ. Toppy guy C had his place all set up for us all to stay there. That night, I talked my brat friend J and N to sleep, like I had done many times before via phone. Life couldn't get any better than this. Of course, I DID manage to get spanked before bed somehow...hmmmm

*****Continued, Part II Below*****

The next morning, I was the last to wake up (hey I was tired you know!). Everyone was having bagels and there I was sleeping! LOL!! But not for long!! Toppy guy C made sure to give me the incentive I needed to get out of bed. Our plans for the day were to head to PA for a spanking party. Of course, we needed to get some kind of food item to bring as part of the party requirements. So we headed out to get something to bring and then back to get ready. Of course Toppy guy C had to say, if I was the *last* one to get ready, I was to be punished!! The nerve!! First of all, WHO told him that I'm always the last one ready anyway?? So as to not disappoint, I made sure I was the LAST one ready LOL!!



After we were all ready, we headed about 45 min to PA for the spanking party. At first, the place reminded me the movie Hostel...YIKES!! It was a very creepy warehouse, especially the elevator!! But once we got upstairs, the place was decorated rather nicely! From what I gathered, this was a local BDSM club and it surely had a dungeon feel about it. As Toppy guy C and I walked about the place (mostly so that I could explore the saint andrew's cross and pet cage) we stumbled upon a spanking bench. Imagine that!! OF COURSE Toppy guy C wanted me to try it out!! After a couple of dozen swats with the strap, I was nice and warm.

There were about 25 people total and the headlining act was a Magician!! Who ever thought that spanking and magic tricks would go so well together!! Some of the girls took turns being the "subject" and of course the end result was that they were spanked...even ME!! But it was a great party ice breaker and before you knew it, the play was in full swing. The party space was set up with a lounge like area with a few couches for talk or play. It was also set up with some curtain section rooms for more private play. I'm happy to report that I was able to play with quite a few Toppy guys at the party. Once the party wound down, a group of us all headed to Pat and Geno's for Philly Cheese steaks!! (apparently these are quite famous places) I was beyond excited!! I was going to have a Philly Cheese steak in PA!! WOOO HOOO!!

Once we got our fill of the good eats, we went to a local bar and talked. Some of the best times I have at spanking parties are just talking to my fellow spanko friends. I definitely feel pretty lucky to have so many good, close friends who share in this kink that I love so much.

Exhausted from the day's events, Toppy guy C took J,N and myself back to NJ for some rest. Of course I was spanked yet AGAIN before bed because Toppy guy C INSISTED that it helps you sleep better (*rolls eyes*) Where does he get this stuff from anyway?? By this point, I had lost track of how many spankings I had gotten this weekend...SHEESH!

The next day was my last day and I knew I had a punishment spanking coming to me. After saying good bye to N and putting J on a train back to NYC, Toppy guy C and I headed back to his place so I could get my stuff ready for my trip home. That's when I got the worst spanking of my life!! Begging, pleading and tears later, I promised the Toppy guy C that I would be a better behaved girl from now on (you all KNOW I had my fingers AND toes crossed on that promise right?) When the punishment was done, we packed up the car and headed for the airport.

This was by far, one of the best weekends of my life, I have to admit. I not only got to FINALLY see where my bestest friends lives, but I got the chance to get to know a really amazing guy who was not only generous, but kind (except when he was wielding a bath brush, or strap, hairbrush, paddle, leather paddle, cane, switch or his hand even! LOL!)

I can't wait to go back for more spanking fun!! (which will be very soon apparently!! YAY for me!!)

Until my next adventure....

~maria fbg~